Actually, most incels (male and female) just want a deep and meaningful relationship with somebody who isn’t going to ditch and ghost them after a mere 2 weeks.
The whole Sex thing has really just been co-flated with Having a Girlfriend for some stupid reason… probably because of the sex-obsessed society we live in … in fact I think the word Incel just needs to cease to exist. Involuntary Loneliness would be a far better label.
You can be perfectly capable of getting laid without being capable of scoring an actual date. I fall into this category… I could easily have sex with a good looking woman from Tinder if I wanted to. Them wanting to actually go on a date with me is a wholly different story… and not to mention the fact that 99% of them already have boyfriends and are bisexual women who got bored and just wanted to bang a chick for a night.
I don’t know why it always baffles people when I have to explain just how little I give a shit about sex. It’s easier for me to just turn the left cheek and pretend that I’m a narcissistic jerk with high standards… just play along with the narrative that was written for me. What can you do?